MARRIAGES!

How actually does indian society works?  If you know a person from a long time and you are in a relationship and because of the love you guys decide to have sex. You are doing wrong. But at the same place, they marry you to some unknown person and the same day you are married, you are fucked by the same unknown person. Yes, man we are protective over our children and No, this is not rape.

Just take a moment and think about it. Just because its some age old mentality, that youngsters should marry as per their parents wish, will us guys have to sactifice and comprise all the time?
Ok! Now suppose you happen to do an arrange marriage, it doesn't work out between 2 people, thats not the end. They will ask you to comprimise, do whatever you can to make it work even if you have to let go of your dreams, your happiness and all. But at the same point if we do a love marriage and by chance some complications occur, they wont tell you to comprimise not will they console you but they will just say one thing: it was your fault now bear the consequences.
Basically is it that parents dont let their child marry the person they love because of the fear of the society. Yes, it is true.
India has crossed all the marks now of being an idle country. There is no way that it can be achieved.
I believe that if we marry the person we love and if by chance the marriage doesn't work out, atleast it will be my fault I will have myself to be blamed and I will be bold and carefull enough to not make the same mistake again. But if my parents get me married and the same thing happens, I will have to blame them for it and obviously no child would like blaming their own parents for anything.

I believe the beat way to learn lessons is by trying to work something different out.